It is a social norm that most people only feel obligated to help those who they feel are superior to them. As for those who they feel are inferior to them, they will want them to continue to be a failure, so that they can comfortably know there is always someone who is more lousy. This is an undeniable human nature, where we prey on the weak and respect the strong.
No one likes to be the last in line and no one likes to be overtaken in life or in social status. Hence, most people will try their best effort to undermine those who they have already identified as being “weak”, limiting the respects, resources, and opportunities that the “weak” could get, so to maintain status quo and keep them in line.
Therefore, convince others that you have a strong mindset, willing to take up the challenges and conflicts, willing to compete with others and willing to strive for improvement in life. And everyone will by default feel obligated to help someone as strong as you, as they will not classify you as a weakling that need to be kept in a lower social status. Instead, they will treat you as a companion to work together and strive for success.
If you show a sense of weakness to others, people will only feel obligated to pull you down and step on you for their own success or entertainment. As by default they will put little or no worth in you.
This how dirty the human society is, grouping people into different social status and classes, with different types of restrictions, unfair treatment and bias.
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